My spirit guide Lakota tells me my healing hands go together with my ability to assist someone when they cross over. It is my energy alone that gives the person comfort a security that they crave yet may not even understand themselves. No one knows the last moment they will take their last breath but I know that on a very deep shaman, Medium level, I have the death doula abilities to lead someone to the crossing over side. I have witnessed this with both my parents deaths and with my first boss I had. The persons energy becomes very child like and fear filled. I recognize it instantly and something with in me shifts as well as the language I speak to them becomes a safe haven of comfort. I literally control the energy of their fear so that they are not experiencing shear terror. Most people die alone and I mean deeply within themselves , yes they can have a room full of people but mostly people feel they are all alone in their transition period yet I understand them and I can give them the solid comfort energetically to ease them through their last moments .
Diane Marshall